Also, reading the thriller, The Leopard by Jo Nesbo, a passage in the book struck me:
"You can't just disregard your own feelings ... You, like everyone else, are trying to leapfrog the fact that we are governed by notions of what's right and wrong. Your intellect may not have all the arguments for these notions, but nonetheless they are rooted deep, deep inside you. Right and wrong. Perhaps it's things you were told by your parents when you were a child, a fairy tale with a moral your grandmother read, or something unfair you experienced at school and you spent time thinking through. The sum of all these half forgotten things ... Anchored deep within is in fact a pretty apposite expression. Because it tells you that you may not be able to see that anchor in the depths, but you damn well can't move from the spot, that's what you float around and that's where your home is."
So get remembering!